Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Aidan's Big Performance

As part of their "Just Imagine" unit at school, the second graders re-wrote the fairy tale Cinderella, from the mice's point of view.  The kids worked for weeks on the writing of the script and their performance and I was really surprised at how well-written and well-acted it was!  Everyone remembered their lines, it was funny, the dances were cute, and the costumes and props were great.  Of course, we video taped the whole thing, but I won't post all of that!  Here are a few pics, though.
 Half the cast
 My little mouse :)
 Aidan even had a musical part!  He played the xylophone during one of the songs!
Post-performance congratulations!

Monday, March 14, 2011

Frankfurt Half-Marathon

We are SO PROUD of Jason today!!!  Yesterday he completed his first half-marathon in great time!  The official time was 2 hours 5 minutes and a few seconds.  He and his friend Bob ran the whole time together and didn't even look winded!  The kids and I went with Bob's wife, Monica, and their kids to cheer them on at the halfway point.  We made signs and brought noise makers.  The kids were a big hit with all the runners and the daddies were sure encouraged to run, run, run!

Andrew and Lainey waiting for their dads
Andrew, Lainey, Brianne, and Aidan waiting, waiting, waiting...
Here they are just after the 10K mark! 

After we saw them half way, we drove to the finish line at the soccer arena.  We made it just in time to see the guys cross the finish line.  They did so well!  Jay's goal time was 2:25 and he beat that goal by 20 minutes, how great is that?  At the end of the race, all runners were given a banana and a beer.  Yep, beer.  Non-alcoholic, but beer nonetheless.  How's German is that?
Posing post race, by the starting line
Proud daddies and proud kiddos
They didn't get a medal, but they did have fun on the podium. 
 13.1miles/21K in 2:05 Way to go guys!! 

Monica and I better step up our training for our 10K in May!

Fasnacht

Missy and Chris came to visit us for a long weekend before they went skiing in Chamonix.  We didn't realize at the time they booked their trip that they'd be here for Fasnacht!  Fasnacht is the German version of Mardi Gras, but even crazier as it lasts 5 days and the planning for it begins in November of the previous year.  Fasnacht, or Fasching in it's verb form, is the one weekend that all the Germans pull the sticks out of their butts and make public fools of themselves.

Who are we not to embrace such a "holiday"?

The weekend started out tamely enough.  I picked Chris and Missy up on Thursday and took them into Frankfurt for some lunch and sightseeing and costume purchasing.  We all went out to dinner at Kaiser Temple.  Missy and I did not go into Mainz for "Ladies' Fasching" which I've heard is a hot mess, nor did we go to Köln to cut off men's ties, as the women do there.  Friday, Jason took the day off and we went to Rüdesheim for some wine tasting before picking the kids up at school and going to the castle of Königstein.  We stayed in that night and played the Wii with the kids.  Gotta love Michael Jackson's Wii game!

Wine tasting in Rüdesheim

Saturday was the Kinder parade in Wiesbaden and we all got dressed up for it.  Not as many adults dressed up as I thought (they did on Sunday though, but we skipped the big parade).  The kids had fun catching candy, meeting up with friends, and watching the parade.
After the parade, I took the kids home and left Jay, Missy, and Chris in Wiesbaden.  After our sitter came, I met up with them again for a fun night out.  We weren't the ONLY ones in costume that night, but we were in the minority. (Apparently, Friday, Sunday, and Monday were the really big party nights, but we didn't know)  We met up with our friends, Monica and Bob, and bar hopped through Wiesbaden.
I really think pink hair works for me!
Monica and Bob
Last stop, can you tell?? 

Sunday, Chris and Missy left early, and we took a day off from Fasching.  Jason's friend Matt came by on a layover in Frankfurt and Aidan had a birthday party. 

 On Monday, I got into the Fasnacht spirit again by going to Mainz with some other moms from school.  This was the BIG parade, second only to the one in Köln.  It was more like Mardi Gras, and wild.  We dressed up again, saw the parade (but didn't understand most of the political jibes on the floats), had some Gluhwein (these three did some shots), and saw exactly how crazy the Germans can get!
Tricia, Natalie, and Jenn
The funniest thing about these people in costume is that most of these people are normally uptight business men or senior citizens!  I saw some weird costumes and weird behavior, that is all I will say.  We couldn't even get back to our house after school on Monday, because our whole little town was shut down for their own Fasnacht parade. They didn't open the roads until after 6pm and then it was strewn with glass (because people do shots at the parades and then break them everywhere-so unsafe and messy, again Germans were not being very German this weekend!)

On Tuesday, the kids had a Fasnacht celebration at their school, so they got to dress up again and sing silly German songs.  If you want a good laugh, go to YouTube and search for the "Gummi Bear Song".  This song and dance had them all wild!
And now, Lent has begun.  Sticks were replaced in German butts and normalcy reigns again.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Ski Week in Klosters (Part 2)

Ski week 2011 is over now, and I am sad.  This was the first time we did a full week and I wasn't sure if we had the stamina and interest enough for 5 straight days of skiing, but we did!

The weather was just OK for the first 2 days.  There hadn't been much snow up until then, so snow was actually a good thing, even if it did hide the mountains and make seeing where you were skiing a bit tricky.  We definitely needed goggles to find our way down the mountain!  Luckily, the kids were just on the small slopes or in the kindergarten area these days, so no worries about them getting lost or falling off a mountain. 

Here is Jason all ready to do the "Bärnet" blue!  It was tough going to see where the piste was at times, especially since there weren't so many skiers out there.
After 2 cloudy days, we were blessed with 2 of the most beautiful days you could ever wish for.  Sunglasses came out along with views of the mountains.  Standing at the top of the slope, I wanted to bust into a song like: "The Hills are Alive with the Sound of Music" or "Hallelujah"! Majestic is the only word to describe the mountains on a bright clear day.  This is what skiing is all about!

Baby and Mama Ski Bunnies
 Ready for the best day of skiing yet!
 Jason and I took full advantage of the glorious day by skiing into a on piste bar for lunch.  After skiing all morning, we lounged outside with a warm coffee before lunch.  I think this is what I love most about skiing.  It's great exercise that keeps you warm in the winter, you see amazing views that you just don't see from down below, and on a sunny day you can even sunbathe!  I'm not sure if you can tell exactly how happy I am in this picture, but this was definitely one of my favorite days ever!
 After lessons and some fun in the kids' fun park, Kirsten and I skied a bit longer after the boys took the kids home for a nap.  We took our time coming down because I was stopping to take pictures every few minutes!  We left our ski boots at the top of the mountain and walked back to our apartment to enjoy the sun a bit more.
This piste runs from the highest point at Madrisa down back into town!  We did most of it, but it turns black at the bottom, so we skipped that part.  It was seriously one of the most beautiful and serene days of my life.
 Poor Jason didn't get to ski much this perfect weather because his boots were hurting.  He did spend lots of time with Lainey sledding, though.  These sleds are really fun!
 Our 2 day stretch of perfect weather came to an end at a bummer of a time.  Thursday night, we were supposed to go into Davos (20 mins away) to see a snow sport show.  Aidan and William were so excited to see the snowboarders doing tricks, and so were the adults!  Unfortunately, just before we were to leave it started snowing buckets.  Driving was too rough over the mountain and we had to head back.  Aidan was really disappointed, but he drew a picture of a snowboarder instead.
 The snow and fog stuck around for Friday, too, unfortunately.  The kids had their ski races that morning and although the powder was great, visibility was not so good.  The kids didn't seem to mind.  They both were very confident and controlled doing their slalom.  Neither one fell down or looked wobbly. I'm happy they didn't come in first or second, because I don't really want them hurtling down a mountain.  Slow and steady is much better, I'd say!  Delainey earned her second Blue Princess badge and came in 10th in her race.  Aidan didn't quite make Blue Star, but did make "excellent" at Blue King.  He raced against Blue Stars and came in 12th.  He was not happy, he wanted to win.  Poor guy was also confused because all week his teacher had been telling him to slow down and learn how to stop quicker and that he'd have his whole life to go fast and that now was the time to learn control.  So, that's what he did in the race.  He said he could have gone faster, but tried not to, and so he was mad that he didn't place better.  I think he did brilliantly!


Neither of the kids were happy to be done with skiing.  Aidan especially would have happily skied another few days, and so would I!  I think we are really addicted.  But it's such a great thing and something all four of us can enjoy together.  At least, until the kids are a few years older and tear off to the black slopes and leave us to the blues and reds!  Bode Miller and Picabo Street better watch out for the Barnett kids :)  These 2 are getting stronger, more confident, and braver on these hills every day!

The day we had to leave was beautiful again.  I almost cried when we had to go!  Lainey told me she wants to live in the mountains so she can ski all the time and see the pretty views.  Me too, I think! 

Here's a picture of the apartment we rented from friends in Zürich. We had the top 2 floors on the left of the building.  It was such a great location, right in the middle of town with a short walk to the bus or gondola.  Much easier than last year in Mürren!

Well, we didn't run in to Princes William or Harry like I had hoped since we heard they were skiing in Klosters too, but we met up with our old upstairs neighbors, the Victorias.  They were one of the first families we met in Zollikerberg and at school.  It was like old times having coffee with Lena and another old neighbor, Annika, who also has a place in Klosters, while the kids played. Lainey was thrilled to see their girls, and they even came to watch the kids at the medal ceremony.  Lainey would not stop hugging or holding Ellen's hand.  She wants this picture to be framed and put in her room :)  Ellen and Scarlett and Lily have always been so sweet to Lainey.  It was so good to see them and to hear that the middle daughter, Scarlett is singing in Evita in Zürich!  She has a solo part!  Not bad for a 10 year old.  And we can say we knew her when...
This picture says it all for Aidan.  He and William were just so happy to be together all week.  I really hope we can see them semi-often when we move back to the US.  I think it is going to be a hard move back for Aidan in this sense.  England is not exactly next door to Michigan, no matter how hard those 2 boys try to make it!
 Even better for Lainey than seeing Ellen, skiing, or playing with Teddy all week, was what we surprised her with on our way home.  I found out that her best friend, Sara, who had moved to Slovakia last year, was going to be visiting another of Lainey's friends, Molly, this weekend.  Lainey has not stopped talking about Sara since she moved last February.  We have had the girls Skype a few times, and Lainey names all of her new toys Sara.  So we told Lainey we had a surprise for her and didn't tell her what until we pulled up at Molly's house.  Lainey remembered it and said "This is Molly's house, do we get to go in?  Really???"  She was all smiles.  Then she sees not only Molly, but Sara come outside to meet us and she says "Sara, you are so big now!" and gives her the tightest hug ever!  The three of them did not stop smiling or hugging for the whole 3 hours we were there.  The princess dresses went right back on as they always did and it was like no one had ever moved away.  They worked with Sara and Molly's older sisters to put on a concert before we left, and Molly's brother James was so happy for some male companionship from Aidan that we didn't see them for hours.  They hid out in the basement man-cave. 
I am really not sure if I have ever seen Lainey has happy as she was when she saw what her surprise was.  She was absolutely beaming.  I hated having to leave after just a few hours, but she sure got the royal treatment of tons of hugs, a few tears and a bunch of kids running after our car as we drove away.
The best and worst part of being an ex-pat is meeting so many great people.  We've got friends all over the place, but unfortunately someone is always going somewhere else. 

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Ski Week in Klosters (Part 1)

We are enjoying our first official "ski week"! We are in Klosters, Switzerland and we're lucky to be vacationing with our friends from England.  Aidan is thrilled to be with his BFF, William, and Lainey and Ted always have fun together.

Klosters is a small ski village south of Munich, Germany and north of St. Moritz.  It is quite a posh place and it is overflowing with Brits!  Kirsten and I saw Margaret Thatcher's daughter at the grocery store, and Prince Charles and the boys are known to ski here regularly.  Luckily, we have a friend with an apartment here, so we aren't paying posh hotel prices!  :)

It's been nearly a year since any of us were on skis, but we've all gotten back into the swing of things.  Aidan is especially good this year.  He's in the Blue King course each morning and is able to ski beginner and middle runs.  At the end of the week, he´ll be participating in a slalom race and be abe to do a small ski jump.  Jason skied with him once, then he complained that Jason was too slow.  So, I skied with him.  I kept up, but barely!  By the end of the week, he'll be leaving me in his powder!

Delainey was in Blue Princess last year, but when she went to the top of the mountain with the Blue Queen group she freaked out, so she's doing Princess again.  It's great for her; she's got lots of confidence and can ski the kids' slalom like a mini-Olympian.  I'm quite happy to leave her in the safe kids' area.  Then Jason and I can ski and not worry about her falling off a mountain!  Soon enough, she'll be on the big mountain and I'll be the one freaked out!  By the end of the week, she should be skiing a full beginner mountain!

I'm going to need to jump back into lessons pretty soon just so I don't embarass the kids...

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Europe: where I feel dumb just opening my mouth

After nearly 3 years, I still feel like a dumb American sometimes.

Today, I went to the fruit market.  The man working the cash register (read: not a person holding a Master's Degree most likely) spoke French to the woman in front of me, English to me, and German to the guy behind me.  And I don't me he spoke English like I speak German (sputteringly).  He spoke English and French as though they were his mother tongue!  And switched back and forth without seeming to think about it!

It never ceases to amaze me how Europeans speak so many languages fluently.  But, that's what happens when you learn foreign languages beginning in Kindergarten, or even earlier. 

And just think, when I wanted to minor in French at Michigan State my advisor wouldn't let me because, and I quote her "you'll never find a job teaching a foreign language in an elementary school". 

True, but not right or even developmentally correct. 

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Bye Bye Maddy

This weekend, we received some sad news.  Maddy had to be put to sleep.  Becca, Erin's best friend, who adopted Maddy from us when we moved, said that Maddy had been in a lot of pain recently.  She couldn't walk the stairs and was having kidney problems.  She was 11 1/2 years old, pretty old for a big dog. 

Needless to say, we were all sad.  It was like losing her a second time.  Aidan was especially upset and kept saying "I am not ready for Maddy to die!" and was very upset we didn't go home at Christmas so he could have seen her again.  He cried and cried.  Lainey cried a bit, but she doesn't remember Maddy as our so much as a dog she visited in Michigan.  I was sad, but only cried (and then cried A LOT) when Becca posted on Facebook that her daughter was watching the movie "All Dogs Go To Heaven" because that's where her dog is now.  

So here's my tribute to my first baby:

We adopted her from the Humane Society in 1999.  She was my Sweetest Day gift from Jason the year we were married.  She was always a sweet and loving and mostly well-behaved dog.  She didn't mind being left home alone while we were at work and made a great watch dog.  She always put herself between me and any workmen who needed to come in.  She could look tough and mean to strangers, but those who knew her know that she'd never hurt a fly.  When we brought Aidan home, she warmed to him immediately and loved her baby brother.  She'd lay next to him in his swing, sometimes nudging the chair a bit with her nose if the swing stopped.  She let him, and later Delainey, crawl all over her, tug her ears, pull her hair, whatever.  If it ever bothered her, all she'd do is lick them, knowing they'd stop if she did.  She was a great help to me when the kids were babies, as she'd clean the floor around them and their high chairs after meal times! She would wake up with me and come in to the nursery for late night feedings and started sleeping in hallway at night, instead of in our room, once the kids were born-she was on guard for us all.  Of course, she wasn't perfect, being afraid of thunderstorms made her dig holes in our carpet, but she was one of the best dogs I've ever known. 
 Leaving her when we moved to Switzerland was one of the hardest things we ever had to do.  But we did it for her.  She was used to a big yard, and wouldn't have that in our small apartment.  Plus, I don't think her nerves could have handled the flight.  We are so grateful that Becca and her family took Maddy in and made her part of their family and loved her for the last 2 1/2 years.  We are even more grateful that Becca let us come visit her when we were in Michigan.  I'll never forget how when we went to see her this summer, after 18 long months away, Maddy remembered us all!  She came right to me and cuddled with me and Aidan and Delainey.  When we finally left (with Aidan sobbing crocodile tears), Becca told me Maddy cried at the door for a long time.  Maybe she knew it was the last time she'd see us.   
Maddy, I hope you've found a big yard to romp in up in Heaven with all the rawhide bones and treats you can eat.  I hope you're up there playing with and protecting all the babies and children who went to Heaven too soon.  I'm not sure if "All Dogs Go To Heaven", but I'm certain that's where our Maddy is.
 Our last visit with our best friend and "big sister"